In light of current trends of suicide we all have our own opinions.  But do we ever think of the ones left behind after the suicide aftermath?  Not usually.  What we fail to realize is that the ones left behind, the ones that loved that person were prisoners in a horrible and frightening war.  What am I talking about?  The victim worked daily to reassure, encourage, and love that person.  They went through days and hours of despair, fear, and loneliness.  They rarely know of anyone they can share these feelings with, but want to so badly.  They hide in waiting for the next low part of their loved ones life, standing up try with all their might to fight off that dark place.

There is always help!  There is always an answer!  Reaching out and asking for help is the first step!

If you are afraid or don't know where to start ask me!

Do you know what this means?

Many of us go through our daily routine feeling a victim to our work, our family, our choices.  However we are only victim to our own negative thoughts.  I know.... I know.... you don't want to hear this, but look at it this way.  If you feel disappointed with your current situation and you CHOOSE to only look at the negatives, then negative is what you will get.  However, if you try to look through the dark clouds of your situation and find a silver lining....or something....just one thing to be grateful for and hold onto that, then your feeding the good.